Parents have warned children about “stranger danger” for years. Unfortunately, this warning is no longer enough to consider the discussion done. Child abduction is a serious topic to discuss with children so they understand the severity and know how to protect themselves.
Discussing Child Abduction With Children
Children need to understand that abduction is a real concern but they do not need afraid of people in general. Explain what child abduction is and how they can become victims.
Set boundaries for children by explaining that they should always ask a parent’s permission before following an adult somewhere. Take it a step further and require your child to contact a parent if they are asked to follow a strange adult to an office, including school or the mall. Let children know that a uniform or id does not eliminate the need for permission.
Different Ways Predators Lure Children
Lost Pet: Look your child in the eyes and say: “There is no lost pet. If an adult asks you for help, you are in danger.” An adult would not ask a child for help finding an animal. Predators will use animals as a way to lure children to a car or discrete location. Require your child to ask your permission before approaching a stranger with an animal. If you are not around to provide permission, then the answer is automatically no.
Requesting Assistance: If adults need help, they will ask other adults – not children. If an adult approaches your child while in a car, tell your children to run away in the opposite direction. Tell your children to never open the door at home without permission. Recent studies have reported that children will open the door to “a neighbor” needing help and become victims of abduction.
The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children estimates that around 800,000 children become missing each year. Many of those children are found, unharmed. It is still frightening to consider that your child could be easily abducted. Prepare your children for potential dangerous situations by talking with them early and regularly.
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