February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month. The campaign raises awareness and provides information about dating risks for parents and teens. It is important to talk openly with your teenagers about dating and the risks. Ensure you develop communication in case they ever feel threatened. Teenagers need to feel safe coming to an adult when they have a problem.
Defining Teen Dating Violence
Violence occurring between two people in a close relationship classifies as dating violence. Traditionally, the most common concerns surround physical violence in relationships. Other types of violence are just as harmful, including sexual violence, psychological aggression, and stalking. Dating violence can take place both in person and electronically. For teenagers, electronic violence is a growing concern and has become a real issue.
Consequences
Teenagers can develop unhealthy relationships with others, thinking the negative behavior is normal for a relationship. The negative interactions may cause depression, anxiety or suicidal thoughts or actions. Additionally, teens experiencing dating violence may be more prone to engaging in unhealthy behavior like drugs, alcohol or tobacco use. Negative relationships in teen years can cause real trauma, taking years to recover.
Communication Is Key
It is important for teenagers to create and maintain healthy relationships with others. Teaching teenagers skills necessary to have healthy relationships is important. Young teens need parents to talk to them about dating violence just as much as older teens. Do not think your child is too young to be a victim. Early discussions can prepare children for teen years so they know how to handle themselves when put into a negative situation.
If you feel your teen may be experiencing dating violence, there are ways to help and resources available. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention provide tools and resources. Your child’s school can also be a good resource.
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Source: Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, “Preventing Teen Dating Violence“
